From Monday Mom – Neetika:
Happy Independence Day, Everyone! I hope you’re enjoying your three-day weekend with barbeques, fireworks and good friends. Last year, we went to the National Mall to celebrate, but left before dark because it got so darn hot. I have to admit, I prefer watching the fireworks on TV—air conditioning, access to the bathroom, and no bugs! And with HD, you almost feel like you’re there, anyway! Perhaps when Haley is a bit older we will brave the elements and attend a picnic or a baseball game. As for this year, the couch will be great.
Anyhow, I thought this would be a good time to reflect on what it means to be an American parent. Certainly, we are very lucky. In this country, our children can achieve anything, regardless of their gender, religion, race, etc. Sadly, some of our counterparts around the world are not as lucky. It’s one thing to feel restricted as a citizen, but I cannot imagine what it would be like to raise a child who is. How would that affect your hopes and dreams for them?
It’s interesting to think about the different things moms and dads in America worry about and fuss over. Getting into the best pre-K? Try not having any access to education—at all. I think problems are definitely relative and all parents have concerns, but a little perspective doesn’t hurt either.
American parents also face a unique set of difficulties. These days, we don’t just encounter overtly sexualized or violent images in the media; we are dealing with sexting, bullying and the like in real life. I don’t know that I’m prepared for all of that. Will I have the right answers when Haley comes to me with concepts that confuse her? Will I be able to ensure that she chooses the right friends, who won’t guide her in the wrong directions?
I guess the bottom line is that in America, we are just as challenged as we are fortunate. There may be places we can live where we wouldn’t have to deal with some scary stuff. But I wouldn’t give up our liberties for anything.
