Divide and Conquer
Monday, March 23rd, 2015From Monday Mom – Neetika:
I felt morning light pouring into my room, but was optimistically hoping for a little more weekend shut-eye when I heard an adorable, familiar voice announce clearly, “I’m going to China today.” Now kids say all sorts of cockamamie things, but sometimes you just know they’re dead serious. So it took me a few moments to make sense of the declaration. Apparently, Haley’s dad told her that they were going on adventure—a subway ride (a treat within itself) to Chinatown, here in New York City.
I was jealous because I knew that I would be staying home with the baby. Winter has not yet left the party in this area, and Chinatown is an all-day, outdoor excursion involving a ton of walking. But I figured Hudson would take a good nap like he does every afternoon, which would give me a chance to clean up and do some organizing, if nothing else.
Of course that didn’t happen. Hudson refused to nap and squawked angrily whenever I tried to put him down to get something done. I accepted this and spend a good chunk of the afternoon nursing him while watching a movie. Sounds relaxing, but there’s something particularly frustrating about being prevented from fulfilling simple household tasks you just want to get over with. Although I spent most of the time sitting, I was incredibly tired by the end of the day.
It’s sometimes hard to predict how a day is going to go when you have kids. Despite planning, resolve and the best of intentions, things are going to unfold the way they do, and you have to go with the flow. And you have to be willing to take one for the team. Parents often employ the tactic of man-to-man coverage, so your assignment might not be the most riveting. Yet each age group has its own advantages, so it’s wise to look the bright side. As the days get longer and warmer, I’m determined to strap the baby into the carrier and have him nap on the go, so we can enjoy more adventures all together.