Mommy’s Getaway
Wednesday, December 18th, 2013From Wednesday Mom – Janelle:
When my boys were infants, I couldn’t leave them for more than a couple of hours. It just didn’t feel right to be away from them when they were so tiny. With the exception of an occasional date night with my husband or a military function with friends, I rarely left their sides. Instead, I wanted to be home, albeit overwhelmed and exhausted.
Fast-forward several years, and the idea of a getaway has become almost a necessity. I’ve mentioned before in past blog posts that taking a mommy “time out” reminds us we are our own person. We deserve time to ourselves or time with family/friends out of our normal routine.
Last weekend, I had the opportunity to explore New York City with my mother and two sisters. We braved the snowy weather and made the most of our short time together. We took in all the sights, sounds, flavors and the Christmas beauty of the great city. After all the exercise we had sight seeing and shopping, we also found time to sit back and chat without any interruptions. Although it was a quick getaway, it was the perfect weekend I’ve been dreaming about for a long time.
It was also a time for my husband to get some quality time with his boys. He works very hard and travels often for work so he doesn’t always have a chance to witness what the boys do on a daily basis as I do. For example, school morning/afternoon routines, helping with homework and preparing every meal. They had a great weekend together and managed to keep the house fairly neat.
Yes, I always miss my boys when I’m away from them. I think about their sweet smiles and words, their creative minds and how they ask for kisses from mommy every night. With those happy thoughts in mind, I came home a happier and rejuvenated person who is ready to be a better mom and wife.