Why?
Wednesday, January 27th, 2010Recently Jack has entered the “why” stage. I can specifically remember when my nephews went through this stage. My sisters would always say it was a tough time. With every question that was asked it would never fail the word “why” would always follow. Now, it’s my turn to go through this stage with my own son.
Right now, when Jack asks “why,” I find it exciting because it tells me he is interested in what I tell or ask of him. It can be annoying that I have to answer all the “why” questions. However, I think it is a great way to promote learning and engage his inquisitiveness. I try my best at explaining whatever the subject may be and hope that he gets it on the first “why,” but at 2 ½ I understand if he doesn’t. I have to say though, at times I see this little smirk on his face and I wonder if he really is interested or just seeing how many answers I can come up with. I’m sure over time it will start to get a little repetitious and I’ll begin to dread hearing that word, but for now I will give him honest answers and encourage his curiosity.
Everything may be new to Jack, but he already knows more than I think we give him credit for. Simple chores can become learning experiences for him. For example, today at the grocery store we were in the produce section and I found it a great place for a “pop quiz” if you will, for colors, fruits and shapes. We also played other games as he rode the cart. It also keeps his mind off of wanting to jump out and run around the store.
I never pass an opportunity to engage Jack about his surroundings. I guess the only difference is that he is the one instigating it now. I am just glad I get to help him on his way.
