Brotherly Love
Wednesday, December 8th, 2010From Janelle – Wednesday Mom:
Little baby Tate is 5 months old already. It seems like just yesterday we told Jack a baby was growing in my belly and he’d have a little brother soon. I was anxious to see what Jack would do the day he met Tate. Jack was interested at first but after a few weeks Jack grew seemingly bored of his baby brother.
I was fearful that boredom could turn to jealousy or even regression in Jack’s behavior. Jack started being a little demanding and had a few bathroom accidents. Jack was used to my undivided attention and he wanted it back. I was still adjusting to having two kids so I’m sure it was hard for Jack. I knew between the lack of sleep, a newborn crying, and an unhappy kid I had to try to turn things around and make it fun for Jack.
Tate started to get really responsive with us about a month ago and it has helped the situation immensely. Now that Tate smiles and laughs at Jack he has become a very sweet big brother. Jack is always including Tate in every game he plays. Jack asks if Tate wants to share his snack and helps me feed Tate fruits and vegetables. Jack even kisses him goodnight. If I pick Jack up from school and Tate is not with me, Jack asks where he is. I believe Jack realized that this special little baby is a part of our family and isn’t going back to where he came from.
It is such a thrill to see the two boys interact. Tate always has his eye on Jack watching everything he does. Tate loves to smile, especially at his big brother. I know as they grow older they’ll be wrestling and fighting and who knows what else, but for now I’m going to relish these utterly sweet moments. I might even take some video so I can show them in the future how much they love each other. I hope my boys build a great relationship just like I have with my sisters!