Car Trouble
Monday, October 12th, 2015From Monday Mom – Neetika:
I can’t be the only one.
I can’t be the only one who drives with a screaming child in the car seat. Any mom or dad who has been in the car for upwards of half an hour with a baby, rear facing, in the car seat, knows the dread I am talking about. It’s the feeling you get when your child is crying hysterically, you can’t clearly see him, it makes no sense to stop, and worst of all… you will not be there soon.
Usually I plan longer car trips for Hudson’s naptime so that at some point, he’ll conk out and have some energy for our destination. It didn’t work out that way yesterday. He took two good naps and then our schedule put us on the go. The mercurial nature of NYC stop-and-go traffic was the cherry on the sundae. It’s annoying enough to be delayed in your travels; listening to your baby wail and having no way to comfort him is torturous. What I’ll never understand is how Haley slept soundly through the whole thing!
When people talk about being glad the baby years are over, I think they are reminiscing about moments like this. Being a parent is always difficult, but there is something particularly grating about not being able to communicate with your child. You can’t explain what twenty more minutes is (an episode length of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse), and you can’t bribe with treats or toys. There is so alleviating the despair. Sometimes, you just have to be in the car. That’s life. But at least mom and dad can shower you with hugs and kisses just as soon as the destination is reached…whenever the heck that may be!